need help

is there any tutorial video were you can find how to blend your Dhol with your songs/beats so the mix sounds smooth no crashing like how most well experienced dj do it

I learn mixing without tutorials i learned it while using acid. Took some trail and error before uploading my first mix, but now it takes one try and its finally finished. It takes practice. Before uploading on soundcld( if u are), listen to ur mix before rendering it couple of times.
Try messing with eq and and other types of fx on ur software.