Honestly, I don't even know where to look or who to ask. I'm from a really small town, and my family doesn't have a lot of Punjabi people to network with. I'm feeling the crunch down for wedding time (although, this is not to say I'm going to marry some first dude.). It's kind of really hard if there are, literally, ZERO Sikh Punjabis around.


Hopefully, I won't get scrutinized for posting this on a bhangra forum, but I wanted to see how many others can relate and how to deal with this.

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walk into mall .... START SCREAMING BUNNNNND LAINNNAAAAAAAAAAAA BUNNNND LAINAAAAAAAAA

im down

himynameis and sunnybonez - Tbh, I JUST thought about the possibility. After I made the thread, I realized I'm probably older than most of the people here.

network outside your town, the worlds a big place!

normally people just get a job transfer to a more populated city and live there for a bit till they find someone, + its usually healthy to disconnect and live on your own for a bit.. personal growth n stuff.

Absolutely. Unfortunately, my time to wonder outside this sphere won't come for another couple years.

Don't worry about it, your time will come when you least expect it. And stop thinking you're too old just live your life and do whatever is good for you things have a way of working themselves out 

Lol, thanks. I have a girl cousin who just got married at 31  because she had that same mentality. Although what you're trying to say is in good spirit, completely eliminating the probability of that happening to myself is not possible. Need to be a go-getter and thingz.


Also, it's one thing if you're putting yourself out there and retreat back to square one a few times and another if you're not even in the ring to begin with.

Just come to NY. You could be a taxi driver's wife
It's a very luxurious life style, you get driven to and from in an off duty taxi.