Summy
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Interesting eh? What are yout thoughts on having and accepting a black president, a representation of your dreams, but how about a black brother or sister in law? THe underlying issue here is that desi's are supposedly progressive... But HOW progressive is one when it effects their own immediate family...
Here's a copy and paste off a desi website:
As a SDMF (Single Desi Muslim Female) in my twenties, I?ve had my fair share of Brown Girls-type talk, usually over brunch and usually about boys. Many boys. Over the years, I?ve dated a Desi Hindu and a Black Muslim and I?ve always wondered with whom my parents would cringe less with ? would their racial prejudice or Muslim orthodoxy take precedence? I?ve always thought they would be more accepting of a Muslim man, no matter what race, but my friends always begged to differ that racism prevailed over all. Of course, I would like to think that my parents would accept anyone that I would love, but we all know the desi Bradley effect there.
Truth is no boy over the years has met the bar to be introduced to my parents so I have no way to test this effect yet. But I am curious, if Obama is elected President, and my parents vote for him, will it be more acceptable for me to bring home a black man? If elected, will Obama essentially increase the desi dating pool of what boys us SDMFs can bring home