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Mariam said:I thought she was already married.
Mmmm...SCANDALOUS!Jessica said:I thought HE was already married
LOL +1 especailly the miss pooja partrampur209 said:Getta is married n has 2 kids I don't think miss pooja would get married anytime soon because she would lose her male fans hahah
LOLLLLCOMTONDAJATT said:I don't think their castes match, so probably not.
Most Punjabi parents to their kids:justAguy said:"I don't think their castes match, so probably not."
Man it's hard to believe this garbage still exists. Desis will ALWAYS make problems over anything.
Personal story ... after a perfect West Punjabi girlfriend things fell apart cuz of titles ... the whole India Pak think 60 years later ... it was like Veer Zara with a shitty ending ....
Desis I tell you. It's NEVER a winning situation. You find out desis are crazy and drama oriented, decide you wana go for a white girl, tell ur parents you don't wana deal with BS and would rather marry a white girl, THEY disown you, and then it's just you and yourself. I'm sure this has happened. Pritpal oyy
Lol but you guys are forgetting that in our culture it is not just a marriage between two people, it is a marriage between two families. And the truth is (you all know it) Jatts and other castes just operate different. From the language, food, customs, upbringing...it is just not the same. Not saying one is better than the other, but it is different. And that difference makes it hard for both families to connect. People decide who they want to marry on far less important details (like height, weight) so why is deciding who you want to marry based on their upbringing and culture any different?COMTONDAJATT said:Most Punjabi parents to their kids:justAguy said:"I don't think their castes match, so probably not."
Man it's hard to believe this garbage still exists. Desis will ALWAYS make problems over anything.
Personal story ... after a perfect West Punjabi girlfriend things fell apart cuz of titles ... the whole India Pak think 60 years later ... it was like Veer Zara with a shitty ending ....
Desis I tell you. It's NEVER a winning situation. You find out desis are crazy and drama oriented, decide you wana go for a white girl, tell ur parents you don't wana deal with BS and would rather marry a white girl, THEY disown you, and then it's just you and yourself. I'm sure this has happened. Pritpal oyy
'Love? Who do you think you are, Ranjha? Go marry that girl she is of same caste and will make good wife. I don't care if you know her or not! We have decided. Also I want 3 children, sons preferentially'
Hahaha right about that ... except that last part ... they wouldn't know a word that bigCOMTONDAJATT said:Most Punjabi parents to their kids:
'Love? Who do you think you are, Ranjha? Go marry that girl she is of same caste and will make good wife. I don't care if you know her or not! We have decided. Also I want 3 children, sons preferentially'
That is true but nowadays it is pretty unreasonable for parents to expect us to marry someone primarily based on family considerations, we live in different societies where most of us don't live in joint families anyways so it shouldn't be a the main concern. Main concern should be if you 'love' your spouse and can have a good life with them, but to each situation is different. Problem I think is that parents still attach expectations from their time onto us and that isn't fair.HarmanSingh said:Lol but you guys are forgetting that in our culture it is not just a marriage between two people, it is a marriage between two families. And the truth is (you all know it) Jatts and other castes just operate different. From the language, food, customs, upbringing...it is just not the same. Not saying one is better than the other, but it is different. And that difference makes it hard for both families to connect. People decide who they want to marry on far less important details (like height, weight) so why is deciding who you want to marry based on their upbringing and culture any different?