Jeeti
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I was about to post this in the Sikhs topic, but I felt it was a bit too controversial and a good topic to be discussed separately...
Once again, I am going to take a slight different stance, so as to prevent a particularly rosy picture of the religion I identify with....
as much as we are not supposed to involve castes at all, there is no question that a great number of the older generation are very much aware of their "caste", and are bias to stay towards their own...im gonna call it an "Apney Bandhey" complex...ESPECIALLY in jatt sikh culture this is the way it is....
I feel that however ideal you all paint the picture of Sikhism, just as in other religions...there are obvious clashes between the culture and the religion (see drinking).
Is there a serious problem if you take a bit of pride in being your particular caste (proud jatt sikh)? In my opinion, absolutely not...the point of avoiding the caste was to make sure theres no judgement based on caste...
so my question to all of you...Can you be proud of being whatever you happen to be without having a bias towards your own more closely related people? If you can...then what is wrong with it?
Just to add on to the topic...Princess just posted this almost at the same time I started this topic, and is related to the question...
----Although this is true, y is it that when get their kids married most parents go by caste, its like the 1st thing they look at, even though the guru’s have stated everyone equal, why is it that our parents just don’t get that!
..It is clear why parents go by caste because those considered that particular caste are already inherently considered to share certain characteristics individually as well as within the family....Correct me if I'm wrong but the aspect of castes that was rejected by the Gurus was the fact that there should be no inequality because of what caste you are...but if our parents are using it today just trying to base it off the fact that you already seem to know more about them just by their caste then whats wrong with it? (It's like parents choosing people of Indian background over anything else for their daughter or son....same thing right?)
...That being said, everyone should be considered equal, but if you are using a "caste" to simply identify the part of India they are from or to get a sense of their family history...
THEN WHATS THE PROBLEM?
Once again, I am going to take a slight different stance, so as to prevent a particularly rosy picture of the religion I identify with....
as much as we are not supposed to involve castes at all, there is no question that a great number of the older generation are very much aware of their "caste", and are bias to stay towards their own...im gonna call it an "Apney Bandhey" complex...ESPECIALLY in jatt sikh culture this is the way it is....
I feel that however ideal you all paint the picture of Sikhism, just as in other religions...there are obvious clashes between the culture and the religion (see drinking).
Is there a serious problem if you take a bit of pride in being your particular caste (proud jatt sikh)? In my opinion, absolutely not...the point of avoiding the caste was to make sure theres no judgement based on caste...
so my question to all of you...Can you be proud of being whatever you happen to be without having a bias towards your own more closely related people? If you can...then what is wrong with it?
Just to add on to the topic...Princess just posted this almost at the same time I started this topic, and is related to the question...
----Although this is true, y is it that when get their kids married most parents go by caste, its like the 1st thing they look at, even though the guru’s have stated everyone equal, why is it that our parents just don’t get that!
..It is clear why parents go by caste because those considered that particular caste are already inherently considered to share certain characteristics individually as well as within the family....Correct me if I'm wrong but the aspect of castes that was rejected by the Gurus was the fact that there should be no inequality because of what caste you are...but if our parents are using it today just trying to base it off the fact that you already seem to know more about them just by their caste then whats wrong with it? (It's like parents choosing people of Indian background over anything else for their daughter or son....same thing right?)
...That being said, everyone should be considered equal, but if you are using a "caste" to simply identify the part of India they are from or to get a sense of their family history...
THEN WHATS THE PROBLEM?