HarmanSingh
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Come on now, thats not true . Are you telling me NO elders find the youth here to be respectful? There are respectful youth and there are elders who acknowledge these youth as being so. What did you expect that Uncle to say? He came all the way from India, a man who has been doing bhangra for his entire life and has coached many teams and has contributed to this culture more than any of us could every do and over half the teams were being loud and ignorant right to his face.Somi said:Harman,
seriously if you ask the elders about the youth not being respectful you know what they are going to say....its the american in them or they are "americanized". I hear that ALL the time.
you can not connect being disrespect to culture. its just not punjabi's who are disrespectful...there are many cultures out there that are. Now as individual teams, they should be the one telling the members to be respectful. but as an ADULT they should know how and when to shut their mouths.
Drinking and fighting, again is just not a "punjabi" thing....there are MANY other cultures that do that.
I am not defending all this stuff, but you can not just say its a punjabi thing, we only see your own culture.
How can you stop this...well honestly it seems like it wont. MAYBE, cancel the parties...? just have a show. now will that work...i highly doubt that.
and someone mentioned about the culture and bhangra....which i agree, some stuff you can not understand if you do know the meaning behind it. Even in pakistan there are Sindi people that have a dance and you will not understand the concept unless you know the reason behind it.
but the modern bhangra....yeah that you will not need the culture behind it....that has changed so much that you really do not have meanings for.
My point about the drinking thing was that our culture has been minimized to just drinking. When your average person heres Punjabi, they equate it to drinking. And we as the bhangra teams are supporting this image rather than acknowledging its effect on our community. Punajbis have been given the stereotype of being loud, ignorant, brute like drinkers. Dont think teams have anything to do with it? I have seen teams with a shirt along the lines of "my drinking team has a bhangra problem". This is what we are advertising to people.
I find it funny no one is offering a rebuttal about POL. We all know it was people on teams posting there, disrespecting one another (a number of whom were caught)...and many of these teams are posting here. Is that not a problem? It just seems like everyone is trying to be PC now that their identities are revealed. Or how about when some guy on a team (cant remember which team) was on POL DEFENDING leaving a pugh on the ground during their performance? Is that not disrespect for the culture? Or how about how, every year, without fail, someone kicks a pugh on stage? Or how about how teams take off their pughs, crumple them up and throw them in a bag? The level of respect for the culture is almost non existent in many cases.
About it knowing the culture to dance fully, how can you dance with the best of your ability if you dont even know what your dancing too? I have seen so many people doing lalkaray during a jugni or something and its like, do you even know what your doing? You are yelling during a love song. Or people dancing to songs that they shouldnt even be dancing to. I think if you dont understand the lyrics or know the history behind many of them, you are kind of just learning the moves and doing them mindlessly, not really performing them. When someone who knows Punjabi hears a sher, you cant help but feel pumped up and a sense of pride..but if you dont know punjabi, its just another song with a cool beat.
And its cool people outside our culture want to learn about bhangra and do it, but I dont think its wise to dumb it down or water it down for anyone. If bhangra is not going to be accepted mainstream for what is, thats fine...its better than it being popular nationally but being a manipulation of what it actually is.