thank you.Avneet said:[SIZE=medium]Piarpreet Kaur said:[SIZE=medium]
U can critisize my bhangra ignorance but u cant take my faith away from me, for as unknowledgable u think i might be.
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But you're the one putting your faith in question by saying Sikhism is some form of a Hinduism hybrid.
Buddhism also stems from Hinduism, as Siddharta was hindu, but they are VERY different religions. Sure ppl who are "Bhuddists" in India will also participate in a Hindu custom here or there because that religion is in the majority and Religion at times can dictate culture. But in the end to say Buddhism and Hinduism is one in the same is ignorant and offensive to either party. Same as Islam, Christianity and Judaism which all stem from the Holy Scripture. There are a number of beliefs in all three religions that are in line, but in the end they are DIFFERENT religions. To tell a Jew he is no different than a Christian is offensive.
Personally my family doesn't practice any Hindu customs or rituals, like Karva Chaudh or what ever else you mentioned- nor do we worship or idolize anything or anyone- but we have Sikh family friends who do like to participate in those customs, not because they are Hindu customs, not because they are trying to write them off as Sikh customs (NO ONE has ever falsely said "Oh Karva Chaud is Sikh... Apa Sikha vi es rassam nu man de ah"), They do it because they either find it a fun thing to participate in OR they PERSONALLY feel a special connection to certain non Sikh rituals which they have the right to connect with and participate in. God gives us free will, even if in the end it is NOT a Sikh ritual.
Some rituals can be Punjabi customs that are not Sikh by religion NOR are they practiced in all states/regions of India. Karva Chaudh for example (and some one correct me if I am wrong) is a North Indian/Punjabi-Delhi regional type ritual stemming from a North Indian Hindu practice. South Indian Hindus do not celebrate Karva Chaudh as a South Indian ritual. And with that said MAJORITY of PUNJABI rituals and customs are different to the rest of India and because majority of Punjab is Sikh, A LOT (not all) of what Punjabi Sikhs celebrate/participate in is different than the rest of India- it's a sub culture within a culture. Just like India is NOTHING like the majority of Asia, geographically we are still "Asian". Punjab is very different than India, but Geographically we are still "Indian".
If certain families dabble in a Hindu (and for that matter, even Muslim) ritual in Punjab- let them. Waheguru isn't shaking his head ready to punish anyone. And if some Sikh families house Hindu idols in their home, that's okay too- sometimes these idols find their way to your home and as my Grandmother says "Even if it is not in the manner of your belief system, you never turn God away" aka don't toss the idols away or give them back ... thus why my very religious, Sikhni Nani Ma has a cross with Jesus crucified on it placed next to a porcelain Buddha.Does she bow down and pray to them , no, but to her they are special gifts which she refuses to get rid of. (And if anyone questioned her as a true Sikh, I would hit them. Smile.)
To further that point, Sikhs in the west... We too are influenced by the cultures we are in. America is a predominantly Christian country. Every December, I put up a tree, decorate the house, wrap tons of presents and play Christmas Carols (even Christian ones). Christmas is THE Christian Holiday which slowly turned into a "western" holiday and is now a Hallmark Holiday. We celebrate. But we're not all of a sudden Christian or turning our backs on Sikhism. It is a popular celebration in America and we have fun with it.
And in the end- in EVERY religion, only the truly pious follow their religion to a tee. For those that dont, theyre not diluting their religion by participating in other religious traditions.
I understand you weren't trying to offend anyone, but it was offensive. You have experienced places like Amritsar and Delhi- Delhi is not Punjab, even if it is heavily populated with Sikhs. Amritsar is probably one of the biggest "religion/culture melting pots" in Punjab where you find majority of the religious and cultural diversity. Most other parts of Punjab are homes to true blooded Punjabis and Sikhs who 9/10 times do NOT participate in traditions or rituals that are not native to Punjab. [/SIZE]