rajkaran
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So I've been meaning to ask this for a while since this sort of situation has happened to me a few times and I've walked away from these situations either ashamed or confused...and I'd like to get some friendly advice so I know what I'm doing next time...
Hmmm...I'll start off with an anecdote: At my first competition ever (VIBC '08), I went to my first mixer where the teams were dancing on the dancefloor and whatnot...then I noticed some guys "challenging" or "battling" some girls on the dancefloor (bhangra, obviously), and I wasn't so sure how this worked...
Since then, in the midst of really loud dancefloors and afterparties, I've been approached for similar "battles"...and usually no verbal exchange is given, but merely one of those hand gestures followed by some bhangra moves...Not wanting to be rude, I play along and copy what my friendly "opponent" is doing...but to be honest, I had NO CLUE what I was SUPPOSED to do and felt very awkward...and I could tell that my confusion was throwing off my "opponent", and therefore ruining what should be a friendly dancing exchange on the dancefloor...I'm pretty sure I've detracted many people as a result
lol
Soooo...
WHAT IS ONE SUPPOSED TO DO??? Do the "rules" change if you don't know the person? Is there a winner? How long do these last? When/How do they end? Do you let the girl win if you're dueling them? ithinkyougetthepoint etc etc...
Sorry for all the questions, but I'm sure other people on BTF have experienced similar situations, and I'd love to hear some feedback (or maybe even some funny stories, if you have any haha)!
Hmmm...I'll start off with an anecdote: At my first competition ever (VIBC '08), I went to my first mixer where the teams were dancing on the dancefloor and whatnot...then I noticed some guys "challenging" or "battling" some girls on the dancefloor (bhangra, obviously), and I wasn't so sure how this worked...
Since then, in the midst of really loud dancefloors and afterparties, I've been approached for similar "battles"...and usually no verbal exchange is given, but merely one of those hand gestures followed by some bhangra moves...Not wanting to be rude, I play along and copy what my friendly "opponent" is doing...but to be honest, I had NO CLUE what I was SUPPOSED to do and felt very awkward...and I could tell that my confusion was throwing off my "opponent", and therefore ruining what should be a friendly dancing exchange on the dancefloor...I'm pretty sure I've detracted many people as a result
Soooo...
WHAT IS ONE SUPPOSED TO DO??? Do the "rules" change if you don't know the person? Is there a winner? How long do these last? When/How do they end? Do you let the girl win if you're dueling them? ithinkyougetthepoint etc etc...
Sorry for all the questions, but I'm sure other people on BTF have experienced similar situations, and I'd love to hear some feedback (or maybe even some funny stories, if you have any haha)!