Something I need to ask you.

[PartyJatt]

Well, some of you may know me as Jaideep on vent, and some of you might not know me at all. Basically ive had alot of troubles in ma life. One of the most recent is relationships.

If your gonna troll or joke around, don't even comment.

Well basically, I've been with this one girl for about 3 years now and everything has been just perfect. Recently I found out that she's been actually been with another guy, for a month or 2. I just found out from one of ma boys and i just thought they were jokin around cus there dumb like that. I went to visit her, and guess what i find.....her with this motha !@#$%#$~!!. This #$#!#$#$ isn't even GOOD LOOKIN (NH). When this girl saw me, she was just staring at me like it was nothing! You guy's don't even know how f'd up this was for me. I sit here basically crying while typing.

Ok, well i wrote this all just so i can ask you guys....How do you fix a broken heart?

 

[ENVY BANG-RUH]

a trip to vegas with the boys, bro

 

[asdaf]

Just realize that whoever that girl was, was taking you for granted and if shes stupid enough to do that then it wasnt supposed to happen anyways. Breakups happen, sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. But obviously in this situation, its for the better. At least you found out about it now instead of it prolonging even longer. The only thing you can do is realize that she wasnt for you and theres someone better out there...so in the mean time....go out and party with the Content Removed (but you can guess), kick it, have fun. And in between all that, your probably gonna meet someone anyways.

 

[asdaf]

oh and one more thing ......ur name says it all PARTYJATT, cmon dude haha

 

[ENVY BANG-RUH]

oh and one more thing ......ur name says it all PARTYJATT, cmon dude haha

EGGJACTLY

 

[Kala_J]

Just realize that whoever that girl was, was taking you for granted and if shes stupid enough to do that then it wasnt supposed to happen anyways. Breakups happen, sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. But obviously in this situation, its for the better. At least you found out about it now instead of it prolonging even longer. The only thing you can do is realize that she wasnt for you and theres someone better out there...so in the mean time....go out and party with the *****s, kick it, have fun. And in between all that, your probably gonna meet someone anyways.

krishna, you would.

 

[Dippy]

1. listening to sad punjabi and or hindi songs, its a killer but you gotta get through the emotional stuff before you can move on
2. grab yo self and drink anc chilllllllllllllll it takes time to get over something this big (I'm assuming it was big since you made a thread about this cheating heffer
3. go to the gym, working out makes you feel better and being around ppl helps
4. party your ass off go meet new ppl and you'll realize there are hella machees (fish) in the sea)
5. You gotta realize you'll eventually get over this and life goes on, and think 20 years from now you'll laugh about it (hopefully)

and if all else fails go beat that guys ass I'm sure that'll make you feel better

 

[PINDER KORDA SINGH]

Mar de salli nu

 

[Sunny]

Mar de salli nu

+ 1

 

[justAguy]

Only time man, you have to just wait it out.

Partying will not make you feel better. I've been through it. You will just sit there in a corner sad trying to text message her. It's gonna hurt a lot for a long time, but all you have to say is, this too shall pass, it's only a small obstacle in a much longer much more fulfilling life. These are the moments we look back on when we're older and laugh at. This is what helps you cultivate and become a stronger person. It's gonna take a long time man but just hold it in.

Flirting with girls, getting fd up, getting laid, it's all just a temporary distraction. If you're a deep guy with emotional depth (which is hard to find now days in the desi population, good for you man !) you will still feel pain, and it'll only go away once time passes.

Also, think about it in funny terms. "LAUGH AT YOUR PROBLEMS, EVERYBODY ELSE DOES"

n remember, sadness, it's like a rocking chair. Gives you something to do, but doesn't get you anywhere.

When your friends tell you to go out n party n get smashed, it might help for a while but in the long term it does nothing. I've tried it, and it's only made me call up people and leave really stupid voicemails ...

n don't forget that others have been through much worse. This is just a small incident in your life. For the next few months it might seem like your whole life is in ruins, but once you get over it you'll look back and say 'shit man i can't believe i cried over that rundi'

Also, spend some time in the park. Find your own fortress of solitude at which you can actually enjoy time with yourself, without the need for somebody else's presence.

Don't forget that all good things come to an end. n then there's even better things !
Allah ke bande hasde, jho bhee ho, kal fir ayega !

If none of this makes you feel better ... think of it all in funny terms. You started off with nothing. You still have most of it !

n if you STILL feel down, look up some Anne Frank quotes. Man she was a jem.
'When one door closes ten more open BUT so often we look so regretfully upon the one that has closed, we do not see the ones which open wide for us'

 

[justAguy]

n don't worry about the people of your past, there's a reason they're not in your future !

 

[J Hayer]

keep yourself busy bro. thats the key, you can wallow in your grief or you can create determination out of it.
its tough, believe me, i know. and its also prob the biggest thing in your life, just no that you can definitely
get through this and youll come out a better and stronger Man. keep it strong, and have faith.

everything works out in the end if you can have faith and a positive outlook.

 

[Laddi]

Hey, thats a tough situation to be in and its probably going to suck for a month or so, but know that time heals all wounds! A person like that does not deserve time or attention, so whenever you feel down, go out and do something fun, hang with your boys, and before you know it, you will be over it and will find someone worthy of you! G'luck to ya buddy!

 

[Manjot]

we need to hook you up with the girl you prank called LOL rememberr?! hahah

 

[Jason]

That's shitty, but whatever what can you do right. Its been 3 years it'll take some time to get over but until then keep urself busy ...chill with our boys but try gettin like 2 or 3 girls on the go, it'll keep your mind off her lol ...don't get too hammered cuz you'll probably start getting sad and then cry more. Just fuck it no point in ever going back to a chick like that so just push it away. Yeah you'll get mad here n there when you here little stuff but you gta realize she'll be the one crying 6months down the road when she gets screwed over. She made that choice, you gta pay for it but it'll catch up to her.

 

[COMTONDAJATT]

Dang that sounds horrible. First of all don't blame yourself for any of this. Second it is probably a blessing in disguise you found out she was a cheat before you married her or had kids with her or anything. Chances are if she was seeing this dude for the last two months that she probably cheated on you before in the 3 years. Otherwise if this was her first time cheating her reaction would have been way different, not nonchalant like this.

I had a similar situation but I was kinda happy because I wanted to break up with the girl anyway but I felt bad because she had not done anything wrong and I would miss the automatic oral sex I received every time I saw her. Then I found out she cheated on me and I was able to find a good excuse to dump her without feeling bad So look at the bright side now, you can experience what all the other women in the world have to offer you!

 

[Dholaholic]

I had a similar situation but I was kinda happy because I wanted to break up with the girl anyway but I felt bad because she had not done anything wrong and I would miss the automatic oral sex I received every time I saw her. Then I found out she cheated on me and I was able to find a good excuse to dump her without feeling bad So look at the bright side now, you can experience what all the other women in the world have to offer you!

ahahahahahaha

 

[Laddi]

^OMG too much information dude! This a public forum, there are younger kids on here.

 

[ENVY BANG-RUH]

I had a similar situation but I was kinda happy because I wanted to break up with the girl anyway but I felt bad because she had not done anything wrong and I would miss the automatic oral sex I received every time I saw her. Then I found out she cheated on me and I was able to find a good excuse to dump her without feeling bad So look at the bright side now, you can experience what all the other women in the world have to offer you!

ahahahahahaha

VEHREY NAICE

 

[siddyp]

I had a similar situation but I was kinda happy because I wanted to break up with the girl anyway but I felt bad because she had not done anything wrong and I would miss the automatic oral sex I received every time I saw her. Then I found out she cheated on me and I was able to find a good excuse to dump her without feeling bad So look at the bright side now, you can experience what all the other women in the world have to offer you!

ahahahahahaha

VEHREY NAICE