good discussion, i agree a lot with what meistro/havish said with keeping the moves feminine for girls to dance. when you are choreographing, you can def tell which moves are "too manly" for girls to do, and will often look awkward. there are many times where i do the choreo, and then when i see the girls doing it, im like, ok we need to feminize it, or just gave vague choreo directions to do something girly haha. an example, our choreography to the end of sudesh kumari's safari, i did something that could be construed as manly, but the girls flipped it and did some giddha that made it look a lot more all girls team appropriate. and coed stunts as a whole, big no no. i personally dont like stunts at all, asides from towers.
and like people have been saying all along, a lot of factors that we are debating are just in general terms, and need to be applied on a team by team basis. you have to be able to critique your own team and their abilities accurately to see what is best for you. if it means hiding the girls somewhat, do that. if it means showcasing the girls a bit more, do that.
and my two cents for girls' uniforms, shalwar kameez all the way. there are way too many times in the girls lunghi/chaadre where they open up, as there just is not enough fabric, and you either see too much leg, or tights, and it is just not appropriate. from talking to girls who have danced with both, i think they prefer the shalwars as well (see, columbia bhangra...dheerja i stalked your fb and found the most embarrassing pictures of you that i could

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see? too much leg, im inappropriately aroused
see? prim and proper, and not sexually arousing
